Had a nice chat with Jy and peeps in Mac today. Seriously, that talk helped me alot. And I mean hell loads. It suddenly dawned on me that I shouldnt continue clarifying because that would only make things worse. Thanks Jy! :D Labels: drama
So yea, in this post will be purely self-reflection. Gosh, I love reflections.
I learnt a very valuable lesson: Never try to retaliate/defend yourself/clarify things in conflicts because the more you try, the deeper the misunderstanding. Everyone have their own point of view, the way you express your thoughts might be interpret wrongly by other people.
I asked Weepeng about the ethnic code of conduct for an actor. So what are they?
1) The characters that you are assigned to, you must do the homework yourself
2) Cannot wait for the director to chase you
3) Memorise your lines, definetely
4) Do not criticise your fellow actors
So yea, I broke rule number 4 - Do not criticise your fellow actors. Though I didnt mean it and have already said sorry to Mitch on the phone before already, I would like to apologise once again here. ^^
From the conflict, I saw one thing - A misunderstanding can actually blow up the friendship which you and your friend have built for 3 years. Now it makes me really wonder what kind of person I'm really am to them. Maybe I wasn't that important in their life afterall. Maybe I'm just a mere shadow, that lingers amongst their circle of friends. Is friendship that vulnerable, I wonder.
经一致，长一智。
Life is all about learning new things and the mistakes you've made (:
